• its easier to just sit outside away from the annoyance of doing everything incorrect.

• He talks to me like I'm an employee. He needs to know that I'm "on board" with everything he wants me doing. 
• If I don't behave he withholds intimacy from me.
• He doesn't call me.
• He doesn't invite me to go anywhere with him even if his friends ask him where I am.
• He would rather play video games then have me around.